THE 90-DAY COURAGEOUS LIVING PRIVATE CONSULTATION
From understanding it to living it.
Twelve private sessions over 90 days to close the Professional-Personal Identity Split, so you make decisions in love with the same clarity you bring to work.
$7,800
The Intensive gives you the explanation and the map.
The 90 days is where you walk it, with me beside you.
Knowing why you override yourself is the beginning. Changing what you do in the moment, when the text comes in or the old dynamic starts again, takes practice and support.
Insight alone does not prevent the pattern from repeating.
Or maybe nothing fell apart.
You built the life. The career, the marriage, the home, the trips.
And you can't relax inside it.
You feel guilty when things are good. You brace for the other shoe. Some quiet part of you is waiting for it all to be taken away.
That isn't ingratitude. It's the same vigilance that built your success, still on duty long after the danger passed.
The 90 days is also for the woman who wants to finally live in the life she created.
HOW THE 90 DAYS WORK
Six phases. One standard in every room.
01
Stabilization
Reduce emotional reactivity and restore internal steadiness.
02
Decision Chain Mapping
Identify exactly where instinct was overridden.
03
Pattern Identification
Name the relational dynamic you unconsciously enter, and why.
04
Boundary Reconstruction
Rebuild boundaries that hold under emotional pressure.
05
Standard Alignment
Define the non-negotiables and relational filters that match your professional clarity.
06
Integration
Your professional and personal selves operate by the same standard.
BY WEEK FOUR
The split becomes visible.
BY WEEK EIGHT
Your responses change.
BY WEEK TWELVE
Your decisions change. Not in theory. In real life.
WHAT CHANGES
You become the same woman in every room.
- You make personal decisions with the same clarity you bring to work
- You notice a red flag and act on it, instead of explaining it away
- You stop replaying conversations at night
- You stop apologizing for having needs
- You trust your instinct without debating it
- You enjoy what you've built without waiting for it to be taken away
WHAT YOU RECEIVE
12 private weekly sessions, one hour each, online
Structured relational pattern mapping
Professional-personal decision alignment analysis
Direct messaging access, Monday to Friday, with a 24-hour response window
Integration tools and curated resources
A final integration session and forward plan
I work with a limited number of private clients at a time, to protect depth, discretion and results.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF
- A relationship collapsed, and you are functioning again but privately unsettled
- You're embarrassed you missed what now seems obvious
- You sense a gap between your professional strength and your personal decisions
- You refuse to repeat the same pattern
- Or you've built a beautiful life and can't let yourself enjoy it
This is not crisis support. If you are in crisis or unsafe, please reach out to local emergency or crisis services first.
QUESTIONS
Before you apply
Is this therapy?
No. Although I am a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor, this work is not therapy, and I am not working under my clinical license in it. I work as a consultant, using my training, trauma modeling background and pattern analysis to identify and correct misalignment in your relational decisions.
I've already done therapy. Why this?
Therapy processes the story. This work corrects the pattern. Some clients continue therapy alongside it, some pause, and some have never been in therapy at all.
Why only 90 days?
Open-ended work dilutes urgency and clarity. Ninety days is long enough to stabilize, map your patterns, rebuild boundaries and practice new decisions in real life.
What if I start dating during the 90 days?
That is often when the work is most powerful. Real decisions let us spot patterns as they emerge and strengthen your instincts in real time.
Do I need to do the Intensive first?
Most women start with the Intensive, so the 90 days begins from their roadmap. If you already know you're ready, you can apply directly.
Do you offer payment plans?
Yes. A payment plan is available once you're accepted, and we'll go over the details in your alignment conversation.
WHAT WOMEN SAY
From women who have worked with me
It is transformational and I highly recommend it. It's better than the months and months of sitting in the therapist's office circling round and round with not enough feedback or insight.
This course healed me. I have more joy in my life now and I am able to show up with my full, authentic self being fully present. Thank you!
I have spent more than a decade reading every book and listening to every podcast on narcissistic abuse yet this program introduced many new concepts and behaviors of the victim response that gave great insights and tools to change the dynamic. It is transformational!
I am going back through some of the course materials and finding it so helpful in keeping me in check with how I respond to others.
She is a caring and compassionate trauma therapist who has created a wonderful course that is both intellectually stimulating and deeply healing.
This is so amazing. I can't thank you enough for the support you are offering! I feel so grateful!
Shared with permission by Courageous Living participants, who did this same work in a group format.
INVESTMENT
$7,800
Enrollment begins with a private application and an alignment conversation. If we're a fit, you'll receive a confidential enrollment link. Payment plans available.
YOU ARE SO COURAGEOUS AND SO LOVED.